God Bless.

- Erika

SO I FOUND THIS REALLY GOOD SURVEY ONLINE AND NOT THRU MYSPACE BULLETINS. I THOUGHT THIS SURVEY WAS PRODUCTIVE SO I REALLY THOUGHT ABOUT MY ANSWERS AND I THINK YOU SHOULD TOO!

1. What frustrates you the most about the opposite sex?
-- how many guys now a days are all the same. some don't understand the real meaning of love and how simple it is. well since i'm more grown up, i learned to know that love is an easy and simple thing.

2. What frustrates you the most about your own sex (i.e. they give us a bad name)?
-- they say us girls get mad over the stupidest/dumbest things. i totally think it's just a phase depending on how old you are. if you're still young, you might be the type to be like, "why didn't you f&ckin call me?" and etc. but when you're more matured, you gain more trust instead of having such an anger management. ya dig? haha

3. What first draws you to someone?
-- i admit. looks came first. but now it's totally how you live your lifestyle. i think first impressions are a plus. kinda like, "show me what you got!" haha

4. So it's 2007. Who should make the first move?
-- ok first i'm gonna have to say boys because being me, i'm your average shy girl who doesn't have the balls to even go up to a guy. i know, i'm a pussy for that. shuttup! but if i wanna be your friend and all, i wouldn't mind going up to you. there's a difference. if you're cute, i get shy. but if you're friend-quality, then for sure i'd go up to you. haha ok i'm weird!

5. After you get a phone number, how long should you wait to use it?
-- i wait a couple days. i've had people who texted me right off the bat though. but for me, i'd wait a couple days, give him a text or two, and if he calls first, i wouldn't mind calling him back.

6. So, again, it's 2007. Who should pay on the first date?
-- whoever offers first. to me, i'd feel bad if the guy offers to pay because i wouldn't consider it fair even though the guy is trying to be all "gentleman like" you know? so i'd ask him if we can both pay 50-50.

7. What can make or break a first date?
-- what could MAKE a first date would probably be just by meeting a guy, talking about hanging out sometime, grabbing something to eat or movie. and if that's not a date, then you're moded! haha. but what could BREAK a first date would be if his current girlfriend catches the guy cheating on her. then it's all bad from there. haha

8. Have you ever said you'll call and never did? Why?
-- no. i usually tend to call the guy. but i've had guys who said they would call but never did. hey, i don't consider it to be their fault. there's just a lot of homewreckers out there. my goodness!

9. Do you think playing games is part of a relationship, or would you rather lay your hand down right away?
-- no, i think that's hella immature. i don't really like playing games or whatever you call it. there are other ways of enjoying your relationship besides doing that crap. you feel me?

10. How long before the pivotal first kiss?
-- it really just depends. if you and i have that "connection" who knows if it'll lead to a kiss. but i'm not the type to kiss on the first date. basically, i don't rush!!! ...period

11. Best date you've ever been on, and why:
-- long walks. it may sound weird and all but that's when you can really get to know the guy and ask questions and stuff.

12. Worst date you've ever been on, and why:
-- going to the mall. i dunno, it doesn't seem very "date-like" you know? but it's cool because it's "THE MALL" whereas, there's shopping involved. haha

13. How long do you wait before you initiate sex? Are you bothered by first date sex?
-- ok first of all, i think people should wait until they're fully committed to be doing that stuff. relationships aren't just all about sex you perves. and first date sex? those are just for the dunkees, and horndogs. totally not my type of lifestyle to be doing that.

14. So, is it true…are men from Mars, and women from Venus? Are we more different than alike?
-- there are times when men and women could be alike. sometimes girls just love being one of "the boys" and some metrosexual guys just love being with "the girls" to shop and whatnot. but there are times when guys just wanna be with their own gender because they think girls don't understand and same goes for the girls. but at least we could all get along one way or another.

15. Commitment: when do you take that plunge?
-- i'd take the plunge into committing with someone if i've been with him for a long period of time. if we've talked about being together, talked about our future, gained full trust with one another, and if our families love and accepted our relationship, then i think that's when commitment comes in.